by Daniel J. Siegel M.D., Tina Payne Bryson
Published
July 12, 2016
Pages
288 pages
Language
English
Publisher
Bantam
Kindle
$12.99
Hardcover
$17.69
Paperback
$10.09
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NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • The pioneering experts behind The Whole-Brain Child and The Yes Brain tackle the ultimate parenting challenge: discipline. “A lot of fascinating insights . .
. an eye-opener worth reading.”— Parents Highlighting the fascinating link between a child’s neurological development and the way a parent reacts to misbehavior, No-Drama Discipline provides an effective, compassionate road map for dealing with tantrums, tensions, and tears—without causing a scene. Defining the true meaning of the “d” word (to instruct, not to shout or reprimand), the authors explain how to reach your child, redirect emotions, and turn a meltdown into an opportunity for growth.
By doing so, the cycle of negative behavior (and punishment) is essentially brought to a halt, as problem solving becomes a win/win situation. Inside this sanity-saving guide you’ll discover • strategies that help parents identify their own discipline philosophy—and master the best methods to communicate the lessons they are trying to impart • facts on child brain development—and what kind of discipline is most appropriate and constructive at all ages and stages • the way to calmly and lovingly connect with a child—no matter how extreme the behavior—while still setting clear and consistent limits • tips for navigating your child through a tantrum to achieve insight, empathy, and repair • twenty discipline mistakes even the best parents make—and how to stay focused on the principles of whole-brain parenting and discipline techniques Complete with candid stories and playful illustrations that bring the authors’ suggestions to life, No-Drama Discipline shows you how to work with your child’s developing mind, peacefully resolve conflicts, and inspire happiness and strengthen resilience in everyone in the family. Praise for No-Drama Discipline “With lucid, engaging prose accompanied by cartoon illustrations, Siegel and Bryson help parents teach and communicate more effectively.” — Publishers Weekly “Wow!
This book grabbed me from the very first page and did not let go.” —Lawrence J. Cohen, Ph.D., author of The Opposite of Worry
In the fast-paced world of parenting, every day can bring unexpected challenges and emotions. "No-Drama Discipline" by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson offers a revolutionary approach to parenting that emphasizes empathy, connection, and understanding.
By focusing on the developing minds of children, this book provides parents with essential insights and techniques to nurture strong relationships while disciplining without drama. From calming the chaos of a child's tantrum to fostering a sense of empathy, this book bridges the gap between discipline and peaceful connection.
Effective parenting balances nurturing bonds while setting firm boundaries with empathy and respect. Understanding a child's brain development is crucial for reducing emotional chaos and improving discipline. Parents can transform conflicts into opportunities for growth and teaching with practical strategies.
No-Drama Discipline offers a unique perspective on understanding children's behavior through the lens of brain development. The authors delve into how children think feel and react providing techniques to address behavior in a calm and constructive manner. By integrating new findings in brain science parents are equipped with tools to address meltdowns with empathy and patience.
Discover how to move away from traditional punitive approaches and instead foster an environment of learning and cooperation. Through storytelling and real-life scenarios Siegel and Bryson illustrate how discipline can be an opportunity for growth and connection. Insightful strategies and scripts are included to help parents connect with their child’s emotions bringing clarity to the discipline process.
Learn how to encourage cooperation reduce power struggles and model behavior using these effective communication methods. With guidance that covers various ages and stages parents gain confidence in their ability to handle any situation. The book empowers parents to transform chaos into meaningful dialogue strengthening family bonds.
No-Drama Discipline combines scientific insights with practical advice creating a comprehensive resource for modern parenting Its emphasis on brain development informs parents on the underlying causes of behavior The book's focus on empathy and connection distinguishes it from traditional discipline guides promoting compassion over conflict By fostering understanding parents and children can create a more harmonious relationship Real-life examples and relatable scenarios make this book engaging and practical allowing parents to easily implement strategies This down-to-earth approach ensures that parents feel supported and empowered in their parenting journey.
9780345548061
978-0345548061
5.15 x 0.61 x 7.96 inches
6.8 ounces
Based on 8475 ratings
Loving it so far
We’re struggling w/how best to discipline a strong-willed 8-year-old, w/inattentive ADHD, who’s also a child of divorce, particularly given cultural & generational differences. I’ve studied enough neuropsychology in college & independently to be familiar w/the terminology, but this book would be a pretty easy read for those w/out any such background. No fluff. Lots of logic, reasoning & real-life examples, including pics, to resonate w/any caregiver/parent. No wonder it’s a NY Times Bestseller! Practical applications, sometimes lacking or unsupported in similar literature, are also included, making this book a huge “Yes!” for me. I can’t wait to read more books by these authors! Frustrated & confounded by our personal parenting/disciplining challenges, this book has renewed my hope about the potential to raise our kids in a healthier way than we were & about the potentially more positive short-term & long-term results for our kids & family. I’d prefer the book be bigger & easier to fold back & highlight, but that’s the only down-side I see thus far. I highly recommend this book to any caregiver/parent interested in doing a better job of child-rearing than they might have experienced or attempted themselves.
Such a great book, easy to understand, and emphasizes the importance of connecting with our kids and ourselves. I recommend!
Solid approach to discipline
This book was recommended by a psychiatrist for behavior issues our adopted son is struggling with. My husband is a doctor and I worked with children with behaviors as a professional, so we had already been applying many of the ideas this book presented by using common sense and treating our child with respect. There are some things (like with any modality of behavior modification) that would not have worked for us. Example: there is no way I could have allowed my child to explore a grocery store, if he started to fidget in the cart. We had to put him in the cart and keep him there until he stopped screaming. The grocery cart and the car seat were really the only non-starters of free-exploration. Now I can shop and he is at peace knowing nothing is going to hurt him, there is no way he can run around the store and grab items and bump off of people, he will get rewarded if he stays calm and I can get our grocery shopping finished. I suggest this book for any parent who is questioning themselves, it could help parents out in the sense that most parents struggle and it allows for faults and releases some guilt because partenting is a constant struggle. Most parenting books (IMO) can be reduced to a few sentences: Love your child, stay calm: always the best state of mind to handle any situation (but sometimes we all loose our Sh&% and get over it immediately if you do) and be consistent, surprises should be left for the Holidays. All in all I would stay it was a well written, easy read parenting manual peppered with humor. Yes, I would recommended it, but allow for some modifications in your own parenting style (which this books states as well).
Very interesting
Helpful information that helps you learn and think about brain development and appropriate discipline throughout stages of childhood.
Great book full of practical advice! Easy to follow with a good structure. I’d recommend to any parent who is looking for strategies on how to discipline effectively without undermining the bond with a child.