by Ross W Greene PhD
Published
August 17, 2021
Pages
272 pages
Language
English
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$11.89
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Now in a revised and updated 6th edition, the groundbreaking, research-based approach to understanding and parenting children who frequently exhibit severe fits of temper and other challenging behaviors, from a distinguished clinician and pioneer in the field. What’s an explosive child? A child who responds to routine problems with extreme frustration—crying, screaming, swearing, kicking, hitting, biting, spitting, destroying property, and worse.
A child whose frequent, severe outbursts leave his or her parents feeling frustrated, scared, worried, and desperate for help. Most of these parents have tried everything-reasoning, explaining, punishing, sticker charts, therapy, medication—but to no avail. They can’t figure out why their child acts the way he or she does; they wonder why the strategies that work for other kids don’t work for theirs; and they don’t know what to do instead.
Dr. Ross Greene, a distinguished clinician and pioneer in the treatment of kids with social, emotional, and behavioral challenges, has worked with thousands of explosive children, and he has good news: these kids aren’t attention-seeking, manipulative, or unmotivated, and their parents aren’t passive, permissive pushovers. Rather, explosive kids are lacking some crucial skills in the domains of flexibility/adaptability, frustration tolerance, and problem solving, and they require a different approach to parenting.
Throughout this compassionate, insightful, and practical book, Dr. Greene provides a new conceptual framework for understanding their difficulties, based on research in the neurosciences. He explains why traditional parenting and treatment often don’t work with these children, and he describes what to do instead.
Instead of relying on rewarding and punishing, Dr. Greene’s Collaborative Problem Solving model promotes working with explosive children to solve the problems that precipitate explosive episodes, and teaching these kids the skills they lack.
In a world where parenting poses unique challenges, The Explosive Child Sixth Edition emerges as an essential guide for understanding and nurturing easily frustrated, chronically inflexible children. This revised edition by Dr. Ross W.
Greene provides groundbreaking techniques tailored to help caregivers connect deeply with their children, fostering communication, empathy, and effective problem-solving. Emphasizing a collaborative approach, this book has been a beacon of hope for countless families, transforming tumultuous times into opportunities for growth and understanding.
The importance of understanding triggers and behaviors that cause explosive reactions. Collaboration between parent and child can effectively resolve conflicts and build stronger relationships. Adapting parenting techniques to meet the unique needs of each child is crucial for long-term success.
The Explosive Child Sixth Edition by Dr. Ross W. Greene stands as a crucial resource for parents who seek to enhance their understanding of children who are easily frustrated and chronically inflexible.
Rather than relying on traditional disciplinary methods this book emphasizes empathetic communication allowing caregivers to delve into the underlying causes of challenging behaviors. This revised edition expands on Greene's innovative model offering practical solutions grounded in collaboration. Drawing on decades of research and experience Greene provides strategies that enable parents to foster an atmosphere of mutual respect and trust.
By prioritizing problem-solving and skill-building readers can better support their children in developing emotional resilience and adaptability in the face of difficulties. This problem-solving framework encourages both parties to work together to address concerns constructively. The book further explores the significance of recognizing and addressing individual triggers that may lead to explosive reactions ensuring parents can anticipate and mitigate potential conflicts.
Greene's comprehensive approach underscores the importance of flexibility and creativity in parenting providing tools that are adaptable and effective. Families around the world have credited Greene's methods with transforming their homes into harmonious environments where everyone feels heard and understood. By focusing on shared problem-solving The Explosive Child Sixth Edition equips parents with the necessary skills to navigate the complexities of raising children with unique needs.
Dr Greene's approach revolutionizes traditional parenting methods by focusing on communication and empathy making it easier for parents to connect with their children on a deeper level By addressing the specific needs of each child this book offers flexible strategies that adapt to various circumstances ensuring no child gets left behind regardless of their challenges The Explosive Child has consistently resonated with families because it empowers them to create collaborative relationships transforming difficult situations into opportunities for learning and growth greatly improving family dynamics.
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I have a special needs child and I'm always looking for better ways to help him. This book gives advice and insight that can sometimes be hard to figure out on own.
It was fast and easy to read, and totally transformative. The author's clear identification of classic ODD behaviors, and careful contextualization / explanation / unpacking, is very different from anything else I've encounter on the topic, and oriented around immediate, actionable work to try to make things better ASAP. I've only just set it down so I have not started solving problems yet, but I feel more hopeful and better equipped than I have since before the pandemic, and maybe ever.
This book was enthusiastically recommended to me (along with Motivational Interviewing) when I was struggling with a teenage foster son. It has been a game changer with my elementary schooler, who is generally well-behaved but sometimes oppositional. The book teaches a simple recipe for working WITH a child to troubleshoot issues, called Collaborative Problem Solving (CPS). The focus is working with children who are oppositional, reactive, or stubborn to brainstorm and implement solutions that will satisfy both the child and the adult. Over time, CPS can help the child meet expectations, improve the overall climate of the relationship, and help the child develop better executive function. It's simple enough that even I can remember the steps, haha. I would make one observation: TBRI is a prerequisite for CPS; they complement each other. When a child is empowered through feeling safe and calm and having basic needs met, and is primed to learn through playful connection, then the door is wide open for CPS. And CPS will reinforce TBRI; it’s a corrective approach that will also further empower and connect the child. A great way to learn TBRI is to read The Connected Child or to watch the Karyn Purvis Institute videos. Watch the teen TBRI videos if that's your age group.
My 5 year old struggles with ADHD & ODD & we are on quite the journey. I also have ADHD & grew up struggling with only 1 parent & they didn't support or help me. I wanted to be better for my son. This book almost had me in tears. Super helpful & a must read for any parent, teacher or anyone in general that works with neurodivergent kids.
Parenting has evolved a lot since I was a child, and this book shed some insight into my troubled child’s mind and answering a lot of the “why” questions I have. My child is 7 years old and developmentally behind, so some of these techniques are a bit difficult even with visual queues, so I didn’t give 5 stars for that. I wish it had a little more help in the area of communicating with a young child with ADHD or other mental health conditions to help with the communication barrier. However it is effective when I’ve used it at times with my 7 year old and especially my 9 year old son. Good book, very insightful.
The book provides lots of insights into not just the interactions between our children and us, but also fundamentally, human beings.
The book is well written and easy to follow even if I don't agree with some of the premise. I thought it was well worth the read and the ideas are good food for thought. I will be using some of the strategies and ideas as we move forward
Very nice read! Very pleased with this book! It’s insightful and an easy read.