by Jamil Zaki
Published
September 3, 2024
Pages
288 pages
Language
English
Publisher
Grand Central Publishing
Kindle
$15.99
Hardcover
$27.00
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Cynicism is making us sick; Stanford Psychologist Dr. Jamil Zaki has the cure—a “ray of light for dark days” (Adam Grant, #1 New York Times bestselling author). In 1972, half of Americans agreed that most people can be trusted; by 2018, only a third did.
Different generations, genders, religions, and political parties all think human virtue is evaporating. Cynicism is an understandable response to a world full of injustice and inequality. But in many cases, it is misplaced.
Dozens of studies find that people fail to realize how kind, generous, and open-minded others really are. Cynical thinking deepens social problems: when we expect the worst in people, we often bring it out of them. We don’t have to remain stuck in this cynicism trap.
Through science and storytelling, Jamil Zaki imparts the secret for beating back cynicism: hopeful skepticism —thinking critically about people and our problems, while honoring and encouraging our strengths. Far from being naïve, hopeful skepticism is a precise way of understanding others that can rebalance our view of human nature and help us build the world we truly want.
Hope for Cynics delves into the fascinating intersection of science and the human experience, challenging the often pessimistic view of human nature. With rigorous research and engaging storytelling, the book uncovers the hidden potential for goodness that resides within each of us. In an era dominated by cynicism and skepticism, this book offers a refreshing perspective, revealing how cooperation, kindness, and empathy are not just utopian ideals but scientifically-backed realities woven into the fabric of human existence.
Through a journey of discovery that bridges science and optimism, readers will find renewed faith in humanity's inherent power for good.
Human goodness is scientifically proven transcending mere optimistic belief. Empathy and cooperation are evolutionary advantages deeply rooted in human history. Positive changes in society stem from harnessing our natural capacity for kindness.
Hope for Cynics uncovers the often-overlooked scientific evidence supporting human goodness challenging prevalent notions of inherent selfishness. Through engaging narratives and empirical research the book redefines human nature./n Readers are taken on a journey through various studies and experiments revealing the evolutionary advantages of empathy cooperation and altruism. These elements often dismissed as idealistic are shown to be integral to human survival and success./n By examining historical and contemporary examples the book illustrates how acts of kindness and community support are not exceptions but are fundamental aspects of societies that thrive./n The transformative insights drawn from this exploration encourage a re-evaluation of our perspectives on human behavior suggesting that fostering a culture rooted in positive actions is both necessary and achievable./n The conclusion is an inspiring call to action for readers to embrace and amplify the innate goodness that exists within themselves and others.
Hope for Cynics is uniquely grounded in scientific research providing a substantial foundation for understanding human nature beyond philosophical speculation./n The book combines storytelling with empirical evidence making complex scientific concepts accessible and engaging without oversimplifying the intricacies involved./n Unlike typical self-help books it offers realistic optimism empowering readers with actionable insights based on a blend of real-world examples and scientific backing.
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Based on 24 ratings
This is the most engaging popular science book I can remember reading in a long time. Beautifully written and filled with lots of storytelling, this book does way more than just tell us about science, which makes it so engaging and easy to read. I was skeptical about the book to begin with (since I'm often skeptical of positivity), but I left the book totally changing my mind about a ton of things. The book convinced me to be a bit less cynical, because how we see the world and how we treat others powerfully shapes the world. Trust is self-fulfilling, and if we trust others, they trust us back. We might think cynicism is wise, but cynicism is associated with worse cognitive performance, and trust is often way more wise and rational than we think. The book has tons of practical advice on how to overcome cynicism, build cultures of trust, be an anti-cynical leader, and disagree better. People are often better than we expect them to be, and this book backs this up with solid scientific evidence. But, science often isn't persuasive without storytelling, and this book is written like a novel or memoir, which makes the insights of this book way more compelling. I'd highly recommend this book, and if you're too cynical to read something that feels this positive -- just try this first 100 pages. It'll change your mind, I promise! I already plan to buy copies for my cynical friends. Too many people I know are cynical and negative, thinking this is honest and wise -- not realizing this cynicism is negatively impacting themselves and those around them.
The world needs this book. And so do you.
In an era of declining trust and rising cynicism, this book offers a powerful antidote: hopeful skepticism. Drawing on groundbreaking research and compelling stories, this book reveals how our negative expectations can become self-fulfilling prophecies, while hope is both healthier and more realistic. As a natural optimist, I found the opening of this book to be a bit depressing. But once it got going, the tone of the book changed. The science and stories are inspiring. Thanks, NetGalley, for the ARC I received. This is my honest and voluntary review.
Couldn’t bear to read through the “if people weren’t so cynical they would have just gotten their covid vaccinations and more lives could have been saved” BS.
Jamil is an expert both on the scientific subject matter of this book but also on bringing it to LIFE through his writing! Highly recommend this read!!
While it gets mired in the maudlin, preachy, and, ironically, Pollyanna zones, it indefatigably insists that we replace cynicism with skepticism. Any progress towards that goal is no small victory.
This wonderful book is a delight. It teaches us how to keep an open mindset and to find the good in people. I looked forward to reading Hope for Cynics every night!
It's a lovely book, beautifully written, solid on the science, and firm on optimism. Many people are filled today with cynicism, but hope is attainable. This book maps out the case—and the pathway—for leaving behind our cynicism. One idea I really appreciated was the distinction between skepticism and cynicism. We should be suspicious of unsupported scientific claims, but less suspicious of each other and our motivations. In fact, a health skepticism is one way to combat cynicism. Media pundits tell us that other people are filled with hate, but Zaki cites ample science showing that most people want the best for each other. The message of the book is clear and elegant: If you trust the data, you should better trust other people.