OH, It's good, VERY good!!! I stumbled upon this book when I got onto my Amazon page the other day when renting a movie. I'm one of those people that find that things often come into my life not as a "coincidence," but as valuable serendipity. I've never had problems getting mens respect and most often have found that the men I've been attracted to have enthusiastically reciprocated. However, I was married for 16 years and separated for 4 now and am dipping my toe into the dating game again and this book appeared the very same day! So, I decided why not get a "lay of the land," so to speak, I've not participated in this game in a long time, some refreshed skills might not be a bad thing? The first 20% of this book (I'm a Kindle reader) was exhaustively redundant but entertaining enough to keep me hanging in, it's from that point on, that the book really earns it's selling price! The book is uncouthly frank, funny and wise. Most things I already knew but I will say that I am thinking in a far more "Spartan" manner then ever and it's pretty enlightening & empowering! It's a great read (if you're not put off by blunt, in-your-face cursing) and every reader will learn something from it! Bravo G.L. you've earned my approbation!

Before I begin, let me start by saying Thank you, thank you, thank you to the author. I had read numerous books on dating from: Why Men Loves Bitches to Steve Harvey: Think Like A Man, Act Like A Lady – none of these books have impacted nor captured my attention like this book has. I’m in my 20s – therefore reading isn’t something that I pick up just for fun. But, when it comes to dating books I always tend to search on Amazon on which one can benefit me. I guess you can say my love life is failing….bad (I’m reading). First off, I got the paperback copy and the book itself FEELS elegant and smooth. It already captured my senses – touch. The book itself just feels good to have your hands in and it has easy to read sizing and font. The author narrated this book in a perfect way. He definitely hits you to the core in a way you never knew. I laughed at most of the things he said because the whole time I was thinking, “Wow….that is SO me – I thought I was different, but jeez, he makes a good point.” This book isn’t meant to bring down your self-esteem, it’s meant to bring it OUT. You have the confidence; USE IT. It’s not for the light-hearted or the woman who feel as if they have “life figured out.” I’m lucky to have come across this book so early in my adulthood because I would’ve gone through life a DOORMAT. This book is so insightful and comes with helpful tips to better communicate with not just the man you are “chasing” (we don’t chase) but also in everyday life. It switches your mentally to “basic” from “extraordinary” (which is what we all aim to be). This book is sooo deep into the core truth that I’ve witnessed woman as these woman and swore I wasn’t a part of “basic woman” but realized I was! Even my coworker that’s 62, is a BASIC in her own ways! If you want to transform your MIND – then read this book. It highly sets you apart for the standard woman that even if you come across a 30yr old CEO it won’t intimidate you one bit. I’ve tested some of these tactics with men and it has worked in ways. The key thing to this book is PATIENCE (which I have none) but I need to learn patience is a virtue. I’m going to re-read this book because it was that good and to be honest I am DRAGGING reading this again, but I’m going too because I need this information embedded into my soul.

This book truly changed my love life in a way that no other book, seminar or workshop has. I was single for over a decade. About 3 months after reading this book, multiple guys were wanting to get serious with me and about 10 months after, I met a wonderful guy, and we're in a healthy, loving long-term relationship. Part of why I was single for so long was me and my issues (such as trust, abandonment, fear of divorce, daddy issues, etc). Part of why I was single was also due to living in major cities like DC & NYC, where the culture places career first, relationships 2nd or 3rd, and the pool of men were happy to stay single and unattached for as long as possible. I spent years working on myself trying to attract an amazing relationship - I had a lot of work to do, and I buckled down and did it. I think of this book as the final tipping point for me to develop into a person who can attract amazing relationships. This book is a bit of tough love, but it's so worth it because it pushes you to be honest with yourself about your behavior. It compares and contrasts two types of women - placeholders and game changers, and clearly shows what the behaviors are of these two types are. The book lays it out as simple as "Do This" or "Don't do This." If you read this book, and truly study it and make changes in your mindset and behavior, you will see results. I littlerally would read over certain chapter before going on dates and it was a huge help. As someone who has read almost every book under the sun about relationships & dating in addition to taking courses and working with private dating coaches, this book truly lays out the best content to make a real change and transformation in finding the love that you deserve.