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The Intelligent Conversationalist: 31 Cheat Sheets That Will Show You How to Talk to Anyone About Anything, Anytime

The Intelligent Conversationalist: 31 Cheat Sheets That Will Show You How to Talk to Anyone About Anything, Anytime

by Imogen Lloyd Webber

4.1 (180 ratings)
Self Help

Published

June 7, 2016

Pages

379 pages

Language

English

Publisher

St. Martin's Press

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About This Book

“Gives readers the background and resources they need to effectively discuss a range of issues . . .

as practical as it is hilarious.” — Bustle Have you ever been at a cocktail party when all of a sudden you feel like an outsider in the conversation because you have absolutely no idea what the person is talking about? You’re standing around with a glass of wine and someone starts talking about how the stock market did that day leading to the career highs of Ben Bernanke and the best way to short a stock. You stand there completely silent because you know nothing about the stock market, let alone the history of economics.

You’re being pushed to the outside edge of the pack and there’s no way to reach gracefully for your iPhone and Google. Fear not: Imogen Lloyd Webber is on a mission to make everyone as conversationally nimble as she has learned to be as a cable news pundit. Her solution: get a few cheat sheets and study up.

Remember cheat sheets, those slips of paper filled with facts? As Imogen might say “Google is good, but a cheat sheet is forever . .

. ” In eight cheat sheets, Imogen takes you through the facts that come up in most conversations: the English language, math/economics, religion, history, politics, geography, biology and culture. From the history of money to who signed The Magna Carta, Imogen shows you how to get back in a conversation, win any argument and most importantly, how to pivot out of a tough conversational bind.

Imogen Lloyd Webber’s The Intelligent Conversationalist will help you talk with anyone about anything anytime.

Introduction

Ever found yourself stuck with nothing to say at a gathering or nervous about how to start a conversation? "The Intelligent Conversationalist" is your ultimate guide to becoming the kind of person who can easily engage others in meaningful dialogue. With 31 versatile cheat sheets, you'll learn how to converse about any topic, making your interactions not only satisfying but also memorable.

Whether at a dinner party, networking event, or spontaneous chat, mastering the art of conversation has never been so accessible and effective.

Key Takeaways

Learn to engage confidently with any audience using 31 practical conversation-enhancing cheat sheets. Grasp insights that elevate discussions beyond small talk into meaningful memorable exchanges. Adapt conversational strategies to diverse contexts and cultural nuances enriching your communication skills.

Detailed Description

Navigating the complexities of human interaction can often be daunting but "The Intelligent Conversationalist" simplifies it with straightforward guidance. The book offers a unique approach to conversations providing invaluable tools to engage effectively across diverse settings. The comprehensive cheat sheets filled with expert insights offer clear direction on navigating various topics and social scenarios.

With an emphasis on practical application each cheat sheet is designed to enhance your communication skills exponentially. Not only will you discover how to sustain conversations but you'll also learn how to connect ideas and engage your listeners' interest. The approach is intuitive ensuring you can easily integrate these strategies into everyday interactions.

Drawing from a wide range of subjects the book allows for adaptability ensuring relevance in any conversational setting. From developing active listening skills to understanding body language it covers essential components of effective dialogue. By applying these strategies you will transform uncomfortable silences into dynamic engaging conversations.

The guidance you receive does not just improve your conversational abilities but also builds confidence and presence. Whether networking professionally or socializing personally you\'ll be equipped with the know-how to converse with anyone. "The Intelligent Conversationalist" is your quintessential resource for transforming your conversations and leaving a lasting impression.

Standout Features

The book stands out with its innovative cheat sheet format making complex conversational techniques accessible and easy to apply This ingenious structure turns daunting social contexts into opportunities for engagement and connection Its emphasis on adaptability ensures the tips are relevant across a wide range of social situations and cultural settings providing tools that cater to a globally aware audience By incorporating these principles readers can confidently engage in captivating discussions The focus on practical real-world application allows readers to immediately implement strategies fostering both self-confidence and interaction effectiveness By transforming theoretical concepts into actionable advice the book ensures tangible results in your conversational endeavors.

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Pages:379 pages
Language:English
Published:June 7, 2016
Publisher:St. Martin's Press
Authors:Imogen Lloyd Webber

Rating

4.1

Based on 180 ratings

Customer Reviews

Useful if all your expected conversations are with liberals.

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Antonia
April 14, 2024

Though she warns readers halfway through the book that “it’s not the first time…that a pundit has let the fair and balanced concept fly right out the window” that phrase should be the subtitle of this book. Disappointing to say the least. This is more useful for understanding liberal mindsets than absorbing actual objective factual information. If you happen to be a democrat then this book, full of poorly supported left-leaning assertions, might make you feel good as you continue to parrot the same liberal talking points. Republicans and conservative values are demonized, disparaged and “explained” with no attempt at fairness, truth or even reason. Sadly, it’s yet another democrat-drenched publication masquerading as objective information that adds nothing to public or private discourse but the perpetuation of the political polarization of our country. Refund incoming.

Disappointment

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invictuspx
November 3, 2021

Wish I'd saved $16. I expected more from the buildup of the author on Amazon. There are no great insights or new information hete. This is knowledge that a bright high school student should have. It takes a pedantic, snarky, tone with a subtle note of British superiority to it. A lot of it is the kind of uber-liberal drivel you'd hear on an episode of West Wing, which the author seems to admire so much. I suppose that if you live in Hollywood or Manhattan, and attend cocktail parties with these pseudo-intellectual, self-aggrandizing, egotist, types, this book might come in handy. For the rest of us, subscribe to a good encyclopedia online, it's a better use of $16.

Good prep!

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AmazonShopper
August 21, 2016

This book was not what I thought it would be, but interesting and helpful anyway. It's a mini lesson on several general subjects that intelegent people should be familiar on. The author is witty and to the point. This book is a must read before engaging in conversation with people you don't want to look stupid in front of.

Not a good purchase

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Michael Batty
December 13, 2016

Pompous and disjointed and hard to follow.

Highly Recommended!

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Bonnie Reed
June 20, 2016

Wonderful review of everything you really should be able to converse confidently about with other adults, along with great ways to escape potentially dangerous subjects. Imogen articulates a lot of information in very efficiently written cheat sheets that will help you sound like you actually paid attention in school (even if you did, you'll still learn something!). My whole family has thoroughly enjoyed the book, including my know-it-all father who is obsessed with learning about history and politics. Thanks Imogen!

Four Stars

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Jim Z107
August 10, 2016

Easy read

Loved it!

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Mad Reviews
August 9, 2020

A wonderful book filled with so much insightful information. It's written well, and it's funny so you can't put it down and you just learn so much about all kinds of things that I can see how it would help keep a conversation going. Two thumbs up to Imogen.

"Need advice on how to strengthen your conversation skills and social presence? This is by far the best single source."

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Robert Morris
July 21, 2016

Among Andrew Lloyd Webber’s countless claims to fame is the fact that he is the father of the author of this remarkably entertaining as well as highly informative book. Briefly, Imogen Lloyd Webber is a New York-based British author, broadcaster, PEOPLE Now's Royals Correspondent & Broadway.com’s Senior Editor. Educated at Cambridge University and a former MSNBC Contributor and Fox News regular, she has made hundreds of appearances on air talking everything from Hillary Clinton to HAMILTON. Many people are reluctant to become engaged in conversation, especially with strangers, because — they plead — they have “nothing interesting to say.” That will emphatically not be true if and when they read the material that Webber provides. These are among the dozens of passages of greatest interest and value to me, also listed to suggest the scope of Lloyd Webber’s coverage: o Cheat Sheets #1 and #2: Spelling and Grammar (Pages 13-20) o Three Case Studies: Warren Buffett, Bernard Madoff, and Oprah Winfrey (61-67) o Briefing Grid: Major Religions (74-83) o Two Case Studies: Christianity...and Homosexuality, and, Religion...and Terrorism (94-98) o Why Basic American Beginnings Matter (119-123) o Briefing Grid: American Presidents (127-138) o Talking Points: Classic lines to make you see wise (151-152) o Red Flags: American Imperialism (152-154) o Briefing Grid: Kings and Queens of England from 1066 (157-183) o Cheat Sheet #17: Middle Eastern History (210-233) o Three Case Studies: Republicans and Men, Democrats and Women, and Money and Power (255-260) o Talking Points: Elections (268-271) o Red Flags: Elections (271-273) o Briefing Grid: Authors You Need to Know About (328-336) o Briefing Grid: Artists You Need to Know About (338-347) o Briefing Grid: Composers You Need to Know About (350-360) Lloyd Webber makes brilliant use of several reader-friendly devices that include an Introduction to each of eight subject categories, followed by these sections: ”Wise Words,” “Argument/Crisp Fact/Pivot” format, “Background Briefing,” “Talking Points,” “Key Terms,” “Red Flags,” “Noteworthy Nugget,” and subject “Summaries.” Regrettably, for whatever reasons, there is no Index. Perhaps if there is a second edition, one will be added. Meanwhile, the Table of Contents must suffice. Here are a few representative quotations that Lloyd Webber includes: o “I didn’t know he was dead. I thought he was British.” Woody Allen o “The only function of economic forecasting is to make astrology look respectable.” John Kenneth Galbraith o “There are no facts, only interpretations.” Friedrich Nietzsche o “I myself have never been able to find out precisely what feminism is: I only know that people call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a doormat or a prostitute.” Rebecca West o “Europe was created by history. America was created by philosophy.” Margaret Thatcher Here are two examples of Lloyd Webber’s counsel: o Argument: “Judaism, Christianity, and Islam are Abrahamic. Hinduism, Buddhism, and Sikkism are Dharmic. It’s naive, but why can’t we all just get along? Really, why can’t we?” Use this when someone is focusing on the dissimilarities of people around the world and you feel the need to point out that we are all human beings — tragedy comes when we forget that. Note: I presume to add an observation by Margaret Mead: "Always remember that you are absolutely unique. Just like everyone else.” o Crisp Fact: “The last time the Republicans won a presidential election without a Bush or a Nixon on the ticket was 1928.” This is one of those mind-boggling, jaw-dropping truths that always adds spice to a political discussion. Obviously, no brief commentary such as mine can possibly do full justice to the quality of information, insights, and counsel that Imogen Lloyd Webber provides but I do hope that I have at least indicated why I think so highly of her and of this book. For those in need of advice on how to strengthen their conversation skills and social presence, this really is — by far — the best-single source.