by Lysa TerKeurst
Published
November 8, 2022
Pages
256 pages
Language
English
Publisher
Thomas Nelson
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$14.99
Hardcover
$12.01
Paperback
$17.22
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Relationships are wonderful . . .
until they're not. Stop the dysfunction of unhealthy relationships and learn biblical ways to set boundaries--and, when necessary, say goodbye. Is it unloving or selfish to set a boundary with family members or friends?
Are Christians ever called to walk away from a relationship that’s no longer safe or sustainable? #1 New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst deeply understands these hard questions in the midst of relational struggles. After thousands of hours of counseling intensives and extensive theological research that transformed the way she defined healthy relationships, Lysa is now more committed than ever to loving people well without losing the best of who she is.
In these pages, Lysa will help you: Understand the five factors to remember when implementing healthy boundaries. Determine the appropriate amount of personal and emotional access someone has to you. Stop being misled and emotionally paralyzed by wrongly interpreted or weaponized Bible verses that perpetuate unhealthy relationships.
Be equipped with effective boundary-setting tools, such as realistic scripts and practical strategies for healthier communication. Be empowered to say goodbye without guilt when a relationship has shifted from difficult to destructive. Receive therapeutic wisdom you can trust directly from Lysa’s Christian counselor Jim Cress, who weighs in throughout the book.
You'll be relieved to learn that boundaries aren't just a good idea, they're a God idea. Look for additional biblically based resources and devotionals from Lysa: Forgiving What You Can't Forget It's Not Supposed to Be This Way Uninvited You're Going to Make It Embraced Seeing Beautiful Again
In "Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are," readers venture into a transformative exploration of personal space, emotional strength, and relational clarity. The book presents a compelling narrative for understanding the profound impact of boundaries in relationships, emphasizing that true love does not require self-compromise. With wisdom and empathy, it guides readers toward nurturing healthy connections that honor both self and others.
This journey is an empowering invitation to redefine how we love and let go, ensuring that amidst the complexities of human interaction, our core remains intact.
Establishing healthy boundaries cultivates deeper more meaningful relationships by promoting mutual respect and understanding. Saying goodbye when necessary is an act of love that preserves personal growth and self-worth. Self-awareness is crucial in distinguishing self-sacrifice from genuine acts of love.
Lysa TerKeurst an acclaimed author offers a nuanced perspective on the art of setting boundaries. Through real-life examples and insightful anecdotes she explores how to navigate relationships without compromising personal values or well-being. The book equips readers with practical strategies for self-care and effective communication.
Discover how to recognize when boundaries are needed and how to implement them gracefully and compassionately. Lysa addresses the internal struggles many face in asserting their needs especially in the context of deep personal connections. Her guidance sheds light on maintaining relational harmony while safeguarding what matters most.
Readers are encouraged to introspect and identify patterns that hinder their ability to balance love and self-respect. The narrative underscores that healthy boundaries are not barriers but bridges to deeper connections. By embracing this mindset individuals can transform their interactions and foster relationships rooted in authenticity and mutual respect.
Good Boundaries and Goodbyes" is not merely a guide but a compassionate mentor. Lysa\'s empathetic approach allows readers to embark on a journey toward emotional resilience and holistic connection. This book is an invitation to love more freely and authentically by prioritizing one\'s own needs alongside those of others.
Lysa TerKeurst's approachable narrative combines personal experience with expert advice offering an authentic voice that resonates with readers seeking personal growth Her unique blend of wisdom and empathy sets this book apart in the self-help genre With practical exercises the book transforms theoretical concepts into actionable steps These tools empower readers to apply learned principles in real-life situations promoting immediate and sustainable change in relational dynamics The book's focus on emotional resilience and self-care amidst relationship challenges makes it an essential read for anyone looking to navigate the complexities of love without losing themselves Its message is both timeless and timely offering clarity and hope.
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I wish I could give a rating higher than 5 stars! If you are needing boundaries in your life which we all need, seeking biblical guidance and understanding...stomping out myths of what society says verses mean and sometimes even the church with out providing proper context and the true meaning...this book is for you! You feel so loved while reading this book and like you are having coffee with a dear friend. It is encouraging and brings truth that truly will set you free with practical applications, examples and stories that we can all relate to in one way or another. Finally boundaries have become clear to me along with the importance that stems from a loving place for everyone involved. I only wish that I would have learned this valuable information in my teen years. You won't regret reading this book!!!
I loved this book. It brought so many home truths. Lysa did a wonderful job at providing practical ways to implement boundaries, recognize the need for them and make reference to the relevant Bible scriptures to solidly the action plan to implement said boundaries. Lysa touched on a lot of her own experiences as she navigated her marriage and ultimate divorce and although I have not had the exact same experience, I found myself easily resonating with her experiences as someone who thought I was helping those around me by supporting their decisions regardless of the impact on myself. BUY IT NOW! I will definitely be referencing this book often while I’m on my healing journey.
Lysa does an amazing job of addressing the deep hurts we all at some point endure. She is a great writer and very relatable in her prose. A+ selection 👌
Great book with scriptural backing. If you are a people pleaser or someone who keeps quiet to try to keep the peace and you’re wanting to learn to stand up for yourself, this is a great start. I’m finding the strength in myself that God intended. It helped me to see the error in my thinking when I allowed people to walk all over me and take advantage of me when I thought I was just being the good & kind Christian. I highly recommend this book! Thank you, Lisa Terkeurst, for using your struggles to help people become the children God intended them to be!
This was a topic I was wanting to know more about. I had meant to read up on it, and had some info here and there, but this book gave me some good foundations on what healthy boundaries are and what they aren't. It helped me pray through some boundary issues I had and helped me recognize what was for me to take on (from other people) and what to let go and let them deal with and carry to Jesus. I am sure I will be coming back to this book to refresh. The way Lysa wrote it, it felt easy and not too much academic, but more down to earth and relatable info. it was just what I needed the season I read it. Thank you Lysa and team! Such a helpful book!
Read, learn, and heal! This was an amazing read. It is personal, practical, and biblical. It’s transparent, therapeutic, and validating. It’s one to reread every couple of years as a reminder.