The two-time New York Times bestselling author, OG Vanderpump Rules star, and host of the successful chart-topping podcast Stassi is back and better than ever with a candid guide to rethinking the girlboss life, taking the pressure off, and lessons she’s learned since becoming a mom of two. Before she wrote Off with My Head , a book about hitting what felt like rock bottom, Stassi Schroeder was writing an entirely different story: a basic bitch’s guide on how to be—wait for it—a “girlboss.” But then 2020 came along and after a global pandemic, losing her job, becoming pregnant and having her first child, and getting married, suddenly being a girlboss wasn’t the vibe. Instead of giving up, Stassi grew up and learned from her mistakes (you know, just standard evolution).

After two and a half years in limbo, Stassi was ready to launch her career again. She’d come a long way from that temperamental Season One Stassi. She’d gained a new perspective on what she wants out of business, her career, and life: to carve a path for herself, on her terms.

The thing is, all of this pressure to “have it all” while girlbossing it up…it’s exhausting, and Stassi isn’t sure it’s the ticket to happiness that we all thought it was. That’s truly what this book is about: the desire for joy. It’s about accepting the fact that you may not be the “perfect” parent/partner/friend/human at all times, and that’s okay.

Instead of letting mom guilt or work guilt get her down, Stassi is trying to learn and to encourage us all to take the pressure off, give ourselves grace, and lean into the things that bring happiness. And if you need a little sauvignon blanc or Aperol spritz to get you through the tough days…so be it.

In a world where the myth of having it all looms large over women's lives, 'You Can't Have It All: The Basic B*tch Guide to Taking the Pressure Off' offers a refreshing escape from unrealistic expectations. This book challenges the societal demands placed on women to be perfect in every aspect of life, from career and family to social media appearances. With humor and relatable anecdotes, it encourages readers to embrace their authentic selves, imperfections and all, while gently shattering the facade of perfect living.

Master the art of setting boundaries to protect your energy and prioritize self-care without guilt. Redefine success and happiness by focusing on what truly matters to you personally and professionally. Embrace imperfection as a strength rather than a flaw for a more fulfilling and authentic life.

'You Can't Have It All' explores the unrealistic pressures faced by modern women offering a candid look at the societal norms that dictate the pursuit of perfection. Through personal stories and relatable humor the author dismantles these expectations advocating for authenticity and self-acceptance. This book provides practical advice on redefining priorities encouraging readers to focus on their true aspirations rather than societal pressures.

By embracing imperfection women can find joy and meaning in the chaos of everyday life free from judgment and guilt. With a relatable voice the author inspires women to pursue balanced lives by setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care. Real-life examples are shared to illustrate how small changes can lead to significant mental and emotional well-being improvements.

'You Can't Have It All' serves as a motivational guide for females seeking to navigate the complexities of modern womanhood. It emphasizes the importance of self-love and the courage to defy conventional expectations ultimately fostering a more fulfilling life.

Packed with witty anecdotes and humor the book uses relatable storytelling to challenge societal norms offering refreshing perspectives on womanhood's expectations The emphasis on redefining success sets this book apart encouraging readers to embrace individuality and personal goals over societal approval or homogenized ideals Practical tips for stepping off the perfectionist treadmill make this guide not only enjoyable to read but an invaluable resource for real-life application and transformation.