The two-time New York Times bestselling author, OG Vanderpump Rules star, and host of the successful chart-topping podcast Stassi is back and better than ever with a candid guide to rethinking the girlboss life, taking the pressure off, and lessons she’s learned since becoming a mom of two. Before she wrote Off with My Head , a book about hitting what felt like rock bottom, Stassi Schroeder was writing an entirely different story: a basic bitch’s guide on how to be—wait for it—a “girlboss.” But then 2020 came along and after a global pandemic, losing her job, becoming pregnant and having her first child, and getting married, suddenly being a girlboss wasn’t the vibe. Instead of giving up, Stassi grew up and learned from her mistakes (you know, just standard evolution).

After two and a half years in limbo, Stassi was ready to launch her career again. She’d come a long way from that temperamental Season One Stassi. She’d gained a new perspective on what she wants out of business, her career, and life: to carve a path for herself, on her terms.

The thing is, all of this pressure to “have it all” while girlbossing it up…it’s exhausting, and Stassi isn’t sure it’s the ticket to happiness that we all thought it was. That’s truly what this book is about: the desire for joy. It’s about accepting the fact that you may not be the “perfect” parent/partner/friend/human at all times, and that’s okay.

Instead of letting mom guilt or work guilt get her down, Stassi is trying to learn and to encourage us all to take the pressure off, give ourselves grace, and lean into the things that bring happiness. And if you need a little sauvignon blanc or Aperol spritz to get you through the tough days…so be it.

Navigating life's chaos often feels overwhelming, especially when societal pressures insist on perfection. 'You Can't Have It All: The Basic B*tch Guide to Taking the Pressure Off' offers a refreshing perspective, encouraging readers to relinquish the unattainable quest for flawlessness. Through humor and honesty, this book invites you to redefine success on your own terms and embrace the beauty of imperfection.

Learn to prioritize self-care by letting go of unrealistic expectations and embracing your true self. Discover the power of authenticity by focusing on what genuinely brings you joy and fulfillment. Find balance in life by rejecting societal standards and crafting your unique path to happiness.

This book tackles the societal myth that perfection is a prerequisite for happiness. Through candid anecdotes and practical advice it dares readers to step off the exhausting treadmill of constant achievement. With an emphasis on self-compassion readers are guided towards a more fulfilling life.

Replete with witty insights and relatable stories the author delves into the absurdity of striving for an unattainable ideal. Whether it's career aspirations personal relationships or self-image this guide dismantles the pressure to excel in every sphere of life. Readers are encouraged to celebrate their individuality embracing what makes them unique rather than conforming to external pressures.

Through actionable steps the book provides a pathway to rediscovering joy in small moments and cultivating a more authentic lifestyle. By shifting focus from perfection to progress the book encourages a mindset centered on growth and self-acceptance. It challenges traditional metrics of success and invites readers to define happiness based on what truly matters to them.

Through this empowering narrative liberation from societal constraints awaits those willing to take the plunge. Ultimately You Can't Have It All' is a call to arms for anyone feeling overwhelmed by the demands of modern life. Its heartfelt entertaining and insightful guidance serves as a balm for the weary soul inspiring readers to pursue a life aligned with personal values and desires.

The book's humorous tone ensures that while serious topics are addressed readers can enjoy a light-hearted and enjoyable journey The anecdotes are both entertaining and enlightening keeping readers engaged from start to finish. \nIts relatable and down-to-earth approach helps readers connect with the content on a personal level By presenting realistic scenarios and practical advice it provides actionable solutions to common life challenges. \nWhat sets this book apart is its emphasis on authenticity and understanding that true satisfaction stems from within By encouraging readers to redefine success it paves the way for a more meaningful and creatively fulfilling life.