I was intrigued by this book. I learnt so much from reading it.it really opened my eyes as how to weed out mean selfish men from the first or second contact,even though I have no plans to go around looking for a treat,trick or sponsor.i have learnt techniques that are very helpful that I can apply in making sure the man I choose to be with is someone who have the potential to treat me well,and not to settle for less. It certainly has helped to put a lot more confidence in my actions,and help me how to identify the tricks men use on women and how to beat them at there own game...this is a very good book for those women who have been way too nice to men and allowed them to manipulate you.

It gets you in that girl Era.

This is NOT a book about how to land a husband. Your ultimate goal is to become the companion of a wealthy "sponsor" who will provide you with housing, clothing, a car, vacations, money to start a business or whatever else you need fiancially, in return for fulfilling his need to take care of a prized possession. Sex is something doled out rarely, if at all. If you give up the goodies too soon, he will walk away and you will feel like a cheap lay (because you are). I would have been skeptical about the reality of achieving this type of relationship, but a good friend has a multi-billionaire sponsor that (much to my and my friends' incredulity) does NOT sleep with her - ever. A misconception about having a sugar daddy is that they want sex. No, they want to know they "own" you. My friend's sponsor expects her to be at his beck and call at all hours to take care of the personal details of his life, fly with him all over California for business and to make his old cronies jealous, and never, ever tell him "No." So she plays the helpless little girl (even though she's a couple decades younger, but still nearly 40) who runs certain aspects of his life, and he plays the beneficient father figure. He dresses her in designer clothes (Chanel, Gucci, Celine), pays her 2 kids' tuition at private school, buys her "toys" like an iMac, and has bought her not one but 2 cars - a 2015 Mercedes SUV this past Christmas and a Mini Cooper for her nanny. Swear to God. Oh, and he's married, so she gets a break when he has to spend time with the Mrs. I couldn't figure out how she did it, and what exactly made their relationship "tick." Now I know - this book tells you how. It's a fast read, full of details like the literal words to say when you meet a potential trick/treat/sponsor in person or online. The writing is no-nonsense and full of real-life examples. Even if you decide you don't want to be a Ho, there is alot of useful information on how to be a more assertive woman generally and stop settling for broke guys who want to sleep with you in exchange for zero effort. So despite the title, it's actually an excellent book about female empowerment.

PLEASE DO NOT LET THE TITLE DETOUR YOU. This is absolutely a MUST READ for every woman whether she is looking to 'come up' or actually wants to understand the mind of a man and use that to her advantage in attaining a real relationship. He literally breaks it down for you, step by step, with examples, of what you should do and where a man's mind is at in that moment. He tells you things that men do to play you out of your p***y and help you to not be a victim to men and their games but to actually use it to your advantage and take control. It's not a blow by blow (PUN INTENDED) of what to do to please a man, it actually uses the first half to explain how to get what you want WITHOUT screwing. It's a great read but also a study guide. It will have you wanting to read it fast and slow at the same time. It's a page turner that's meant to be studied and practiced. Amazingly, the first thing mentioned is that you must get your confidence up, for real. Women, this isn't a book for the meek, timid, insecure or can't-tell-them-nothing type chicas. This is for those ladies that are confident, smart, business minded or at least trying to get there, who are ready to take these tactics and apply them in full and in order, to get what they want. My only problem with this book, is I wished I had it when I was 15 years old. Ladies, stop giving it up because you feel a tingle when he's near or he says sweet things or has beautiful dark skin and light eyes. STOP IT NOW!!! DON'T SCREW ANOTHER MAN BEFORE YOU READ THIS BOOK! It also works for men already in your life, ex's and men you've slipped up and had sex with already. He'll cover these situations that may seemed lost in the second half of the book. It was so good, I bought a second one for my bestie! You will want to share this with women you care about in your life but not YOUR actual copy! GET IT and get it!!!!

The book means well and has decent tips but it's a lot of GFE stuff going on... take everything with a grain of salt. Fun read for SW who want to learn some tips or tricks .